What is a gigolo? Zhigalo - who is he, signs of a gigolo man, how to recognize him. Psychology, advice for women. Why do women succumb to the charms of gigolos?

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Love is perhaps the most wonderful feeling of all time. But, as harsh reality shows, in the absence of a rich intimate life, feelings gradually begin to fade away in most cases. Sex is the most important aspect of not only marital happiness, but also the health of both partners. This is especially true for women. It is because of their absence that very unpleasant ailments can develop.

Today, the sex industry has almost become commercial in nature. Surely, few people still don’t know about the so-called “priestesses of love.” But the gigolo profession is far from well known. Meanwhile, it is becoming more and more popular. So what are these men like?

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The work of a gigolo - what is it? Of course, intimate pastime comes first. The vast majority of clients who use the services of gigolos pay money precisely for high-quality sex, which these men literally engage in. However, sometimes not everything is as simple as it seems. Such men are amazing seducers. Their responsibilities include not just putting their client into bed, but doing it beautifully and elegantly. Often, it is a subtle approach that many women lack in order to completely relax and receive unearthly pleasure.

Zhigalo is not just a call man. Sometimes he is hired as an escort to a social event or even a dance partner. In the first case, for many women who have a high status in society, the appearance of their companion is very important. A man must certainly be elegant, neat, know how to dress tastefully, and have excellent manners. Not to mention the athletic build. Zhigalo is an excellent conversationalist who is able to support any topic in a conversation. Even when it comes to politics or global finance. A lady simply needs such a companion at a high-ranking dinner if she intends to impress all the people present at the evening. Average man

hardly capable of doing the best in this case. Therefore, for ladies, the solution is more than obvious - to resort to the services of a professional gigolo.

Types of clients

As a rule, the services of gigolos are used by wealthy and single ladies who are building their careers, but at the same time have absolutely no free time (and no desire either) to have a permanent man. But the categories of clients do not end there.

Zhigalo is a man who can give any girl an unforgettable night. And since some ladies in their lives have had to deal with inept, rude or illiterate lovers, their sensuality is sometimes almost zero. Simply put, a gigolo is a sure way to the most enchanting orgasm for such women.

Another category of customers are married couples. Many people like to diversify their personal life, which over time begins to become boring and insipid. In this case, the gigolo practically saves the marriage, adding completely new thrills to the intimacy of the spouses. As a rule, such marriages only become stronger. Moreover, relationships literally come to life.

Of course, it’s not just women who order call men. After all, there are people with non-traditional sexual orientation. But in this case, the gigolo must certainly be homosexual or bisexual.

Very often, married women who lack the attention of their spouse use the services of professional lovers. In this case, they insist on the positive effect of such one-time intimate relationships. In most situations, the marriage does not break up, but continues to exist for a long time.

Cons of the profession

Of course, there are plenty of costs in this area. For example, overly passionate clients. After all, a gigolo is, first of all, an attractive appearance. And some ladies, in a fit of passion, are capable of very strongly scratching, biting, or even causing various unpleasant injuries to a man. Of course, “damage to marketable appearance” is paid in excess of the established tariff.

Another disadvantage of a professional lover is a serious risk. Firstly, there are women who need some kind of extreme situation to achieve the peak of pleasure. Secondly, there is always a danger that the spouse will return at the wrong time and will not share his wife’s desire to diversify her sex life.

Why gigolo?

There are some pretty good reasons for this. Gigolos carefully monitor their health, so clients do not have to worry about contracting unpleasant sexually transmitted infections. These men have an excellent figure, are always well-groomed, and know everything to the highest standard. The gigalo is an example of elegance and sexuality. Besides, there is always something to talk about with him. It’s not a shame to invite such a man to a party where the best people will be. That’s why more and more women prefer gigolos.

Types of call men

There are several types of gigolos. In Moscow, for example, there are bright representatives of each of the types described below.

Gigolo psychologist

These men focus not on appearance, but on content. Sometimes clients may not appreciate them at first glance. But in terms of romance, sensuality and a subtle individual approach, there is simply no equal to such gigolos. A call man of this type knows exactly what to say, how to touch and liberate the client. Psychologists are excellent conversationalists, which is greatly appreciated by women. In addition, they are also very good in bed.

Gigolo handsome

The name of the type speaks for itself. These men take better care of their appearance than girls. They look amazing, of course. But often such gigolos are very spoiled by female attention. Therefore, you can hardly expect anything other than intimacy from them. If a handsome man is not impressed by a woman, have sex

You can't even count on it. In this case, money does not matter to him.

Gigolo adventurers

They deliberately make a wealthy client fall in love with them. As a result, they smoothly transform into the category of banal gigolos, firmly settling on the neck of a regular lady. As a rule, after this they quit their main job. Great actors.

When ordering the services of a gigolo, you may not see a muscular, tanned handsome man on the doorstep. However, some call men, having a very mediocre appearance, are simply insanely popular because of their charisma or exploits in the love bed.

The services of a professional gigolo are very expensive. However, the man may not accept payment from the client. This happens when the customer is dissatisfied. A gigolo can also make money without sex, simply by having a heart-to-heart conversation with a woman.

Love is perhaps the most wonderful feeling of all time. But, as harsh reality shows, in the absence of a rich intimate life, feelings gradually begin to fade away in most cases. Sex is the most important aspect of not only marital happiness, but also the health of both partners. This is especially true for women. It is they who, due to the lack of intimate life, can develop very unpleasant ailments.

Service list

The work of a gigolo - what is it? Of course, intimate pastime comes first. The vast majority of clients who use the services of gigolos pay money precisely for high-quality sex, which these men do literally professionally. However, sometimes not everything is as simple as it seems. Such men are amazing seducers. Their responsibilities include not just putting their client into bed, but doing it beautifully and elegantly. Often, it is a subtle approach that many women lack in order to completely relax and receive unearthly pleasure.

Zhigalo is not just a call man. Sometimes he is hired as an escort to a social event or even a dance partner. In the first case, for many women who have a high status in society, the appearance of their companion is very important. A man must certainly be elegant, neat, know how to dress tastefully, and have excellent manners. Not to mention his pretty face and athletic build. Zhigalo is an excellent conversationalist who is able to support any topic in a conversation. Even when it comes to politics or global finance. A lady simply needs such a companion at a high-ranking dinner if she intends to impress all the people present at the evening. Average man

is unlikely to be able to show his best side in such a case. Therefore, for ladies, the solution is more than obvious - to resort to the services of a professional gigolo.

Types of clients

Of course, it’s not just women who order call men. After all, there are people with non-traditional sexual orientation. But in this case, the gigolo must certainly be homosexual or bisexual.

Very often, married women who lack the attention of their spouse use the services of professional lovers. In this case, family psychologists insist on the positive effect of such one-time intimate relationships. In most situations, the marriage does not break up, but continues to exist for a long time.

Cons of the profession

Why gigolo?

There are some pretty good reasons for this. Gigolos carefully monitor their health, so clients do not have to worry about contracting unpleasant sexually transmitted infections. These men have an excellent figure, are always well-groomed, and know how to give a woman pleasure at the highest level. The gigalo is an example of elegance and sexuality. Besides, there is always something to talk about with him. It’s not a shame to invite such a man to a party where the cream of society will be. That is why more and more women prefer gigolos.

Types of call men

There are several types of gigolos. In Moscow, for example, there are bright representatives of each of the types described below.

Gigolo psychologist

These men focus not on appearance, but on content. Sometimes clients may not appreciate them at first glance. But in terms of romance, sensuality and a subtle individual approach, there is simply no equal to such gigolos. A call man of this type knows exactly what to say, how to touch and liberate the client. Psychologists are excellent conversationalists, which is highly valued by women. In addition, they are also very good in bed.

Gigolo handsome

You can't even count on it. In this case, money does not matter to him.

Gigolo adventurers

Sometimes you can observe the following picture: a woman of 45 years old, or maybe older, is sitting in a restaurant or just walking with a young man who cannot be over 30 years old. The first thought that comes to mind is a mother and son who decided to spend some time together. But suddenly the picture changes: the guy kisses his companion, and she begins to look at him with tenderness and passion. And it becomes clear that these are lovers.

This kind of picture is not uncommon. She is a successful and rich woman who pays her man for love, sex and escort. He is a handsome young man who receives a lot of money from his mistress. He's a gigolo.

Who are gigolos?

These are men who provide various services (and not necessarily of a sexual nature) to rich ladies for money. In other words, a gigolo is a representative of the stronger sex who sells his body.

Gigolos of the 21st century are smart and calculating men who claim that they simply keep their companions company at various events on days when the woman is bored. They will never admit that they receive money from their mistress, assuring to the last that they have warm feelings for their lady.

Does gigolo mean call boy?

There are many things that distinguish a gigolo from a call boy:

He provides constant services to his client, when call boys can be changed like gloves, calling a different one every day.
A gigolo is a lover, friend and companion. You can go on vacation with it, visit a restaurant or visit friends. But with a call boy you can only spend time in bed, a sauna or, in extreme cases, in a car.
He is fully supported by his lady. A woman can call her boyfriend at any time, and he should immediately run to her.
Gigolos sleep exclusively with rich women, while call guys can sleep with ladies of various social levels.
A woman may be in love with her gigolo lover, but a call boy is just a toy for a couple of hours.
Gigolos will never sell only sex. They call their services "a good time."

You can see that from the outside the guy is no different from an ordinary partner and life partner.

Why do women use such services?

Each woman has her own reasons for using his services:

Communication with a young partner to increase self-esteem. A woman, being in the company of a young and attractive guy, thereby pleases herself with the thought that she is not so old. Self-esteem immediately skyrockets.
Understand that you can still fall in love with her. Gigolo is a real strategist. He may pretend to be crazy about his lady, although in reality he only wants money. And the woman is delighted that she can still drive someone crazy with her charm.
Communication in order not to be lonely. A gigolo will be happy to have a heart-to-heart talk and keep company over a cup of tea or a glass of wine. These men are first-class psychologists who know what a woman needs. And a rich lady just needs to lay her head on her lover’s shoulder and talk about what’s painful.
Communication for sex. Why not? A 50-year-old woman wants to be in bed with a real “macho man” and these are normal natural needs.
For the sake of variety. A lady may simply be tired of her husband, who is well over 50. This is where charming young men come to the rescue.

It's hard not to fall in love with such a man

Gigolos know how to behave around women. They are virtuosos on the bed of love, well mannered, courteous and incredibly beautiful! Without a doubt, such a man is capable of turning the head of any lady. True gigolos are also excellent psychologists. They can so skillfully and deftly fool a woman’s mind that she will firmly believe that this guy is head over heels in love with her.

Although there are often cases when a young man really falls in love. This belief forces a wealthy person to give huge sums of money to her beloved. There were cases when women transferred property to their boyfriends, took out loans in their name, and all so that their loved one would not leave. And that’s what a gigolo needs! The woman stops listening to friends and family, who see the obvious - the new young lover loves money, not her. Simply put, if a lady is in love with a guy and adores him with all her soul, then she gives him considerable amounts of money without noticing it. The life of such a woman turns into an incomprehensible comedy. The gigolo is the director of everything that happens.

Where can I find it?

It is impossible to find such guys in small towns and, especially, villages. Usually such men try to “catch fish” in large cities. Gigolos live in Moscow. You can also find them in the northern capital. It’s easy for a rich lady to find a gigolo in St. Petersburg. Sometimes guys who want to meet a wealthy woman go out into the world and look for “prey.” The lady falls in love and takes the boy into her care.

There are sites where gigolos openly provide their services. Usually these are sites of foreign origin. On these Internet resources you can find photos of gigolos. Choose the type you like. Some women may post reviews about boys. Gigolos talk about themselves, their hobbies, and how they are willing to entertain their companion.

How much do such services cost?

The average price for gigolo services is 40 thousand rubles. It is worth noting that professionals ask for their services many times more than their colleagues, independent girls. This is due to the fact that the profession of priest of love is not so popular in our country (there are about 1,000 prostitutes for every gigolo).

Why is a gigolo better than a one-night stand?

A woman can always find a guy somewhere in a club and sleep with him. But by using the services of a gigolo, she only wins:

A young man takes care of his health. He is 100% free of any infectious diseases. It is safe to make love with such a man!
These guys take good care of their bodies. They can always boast of perfect abs and a sculpted torso.
A gigolo will never threaten, blackmail or stalk a woman after a breakup. He received money, and she received love and affection, there will be no complaints after the breakup;
He guarantees that none of the client’s friends and relatives will know about its existence. He will show himself only when the woman herself asks for it.
A gigolo will never insult his woman. He will give compliments around the clock, as long as his companion is happy.

Nowadays there are more and more men giving themselves for money, but they are quickly losing their “marketable appearance”. As soon as small wrinkles, gray hair or a tummy appear, the man immediately becomes unnecessary for rich and successful women. Moreover, gigolos who are over 30 can no longer surprise their ladies in bed, because their “friend” can let them down at the most crucial moment.

Youth is important in this profession. Gigolos understand this very well, so they try to get as much money from their lady as possible while they have the opportunity.

Yes, the question here is hatred of everyone at once. And to men who are ready to sacrifice their dominant behavior and sell out, and to women (“Fools! There is no normal man, so you’re going crazy!”). After all, it’s like death - to become whore... A whore 🤣🤣🤣🤡

In fact, with such questions you only make things worse for your sex: and you work to tighten gender stereotypes, throwing yourself back to primitive times - he is a mammoth carcass for her, she is the warmth of the hearth. Now, in 2017, one would argue that a woman ashamed buy love and sponsor a man 🤦♀️

Wake up! A woman is her own property. My money is my property and it is my personal business how I spend it. For what and to whom should I must be ashamed ?

According to this brilliant logic, a woman should not earn more than a man, otherwise she immediately “found a gigolo” 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️

You are creating childish stress and nervousness for yourself.

Marry stereotypes or marry them. You place yourself and others in schizophrenic dependence on public opinion.

Isn’t it clear that this crowd will peck you at the first opportunity? It will destroy your marriage and your relationships, because it will force you to develop complexes: a man - because of low income, a woman - because “I couldn’t find someone worthy, I got confused with a ragamuffin.”

So people who are wise in life are more concerned about how to ensure their own safety. And in the physical sense, and in the legal, and in the emotional, and in the psychological sense.

After all, a man who has more money and connections and to whom you are vulnerable can at any moment take away your property and even children by fabricating incriminating evidence or bribing judges, change the locks on the perimeter of the fence and order the guards not to let you in. But when I got married, there were so many enthusiastic moans!..

Yes, there are a bunch of professional gigolos who work on trust and fool women, giving them their last hope. Most gigolos, however, are ordinary swindlers with an empty inner world, whose true essence is visible a mile away. And by asking them about their attitude towards women, you can quickly find out that it is better not to mess with such a pretzel. However, not all women can resist falling for the manipulator’s bait. This is sad and sad (after all, not all virgins yet know how to build personal boundaries and have acquaintances in a large bank, police or intelligence services in order to get a man’s mobile number; not everyone has sufficiently developed communication skills to get their interlocutor to talk), but such is life .

Women are incredibly different (in terms of income, opportunities, needs, status, social circles and connections) so that everything can be reduced to two categories. Some people need sex, some need human warmth, care and support, some need fucking approval from society and confirmation of women's worth, some need help with housework, some want to improve their financial situation thanks to a man, some... then - all at once. And someone may consider a man as an investment project or a one-night stand.

And again we tell you about people of controversial professions. This time we decided to interview a real gigolo. Let's dispel the myth right away: no, this job is not about pleasing beautiful single women. This work also has little in common with the film whose name we put in the title (by the way, we recommend it - it features David Bowie and Marlene Dietrich). Here, as in this area in general, everything is quite gray and dirty, and sometimes harsh and disgusting.

This text is not intended for readers under 18 years of age

Let's start with the most banal question. How did you start doing this?

— Like any 18-year-old boy, I wanted sex. Always. More sex for the sex god, as they say. I had gigabytes of porn and a large stack of napkins on the table. The problem is that you have to know how to have sex, you have to look for who to have it with and where to have it. This is not to mention the courtship ritual and all sorts of ritual inducements of the intended partner to this activity. For a teenager these are still problems. A sudden thought was prompted by the hopelessness of the search when I wanted to call a prostitute.

And then it dawned on me - why am I worse? I mean, why can't I switch places and become the object of the search myself? I stood in front of the mirror and tried to adequately evaluate myself. The carcass is fine (thanks to the basement rocking chair in the yard), they said on my face that I’m cute (sometimes not only my mother), I know how to communicate. The thought of a “shameful stigma,” “an occupation unworthy of a man,” and so on, didn’t bother me much, I wanted sex and money.

(Still from the film “Beautiful Gigolo, Poor Gigolo”)

A few days later I was on my way to my first order. A couple of hours later I was leaving the hotel entrance completely devastated and with a couple of thousand in my pocket.

It was a strange feeling. No, I didn’t feel dirty, I didn’t lose myself in my eyes. I got what I wanted. I got laid, I made money. I didn't have a feeling of satisfaction, but I did have a feeling of reassurance that the problem had been resolved.

If you sell your body as a prostitute or model, you probably know that there are different types and different clientele. Have you managed to find your niche?

— At one time, when I just started this thorny path, it was difficult for me to determine my potential. Let's put it this way: I'm cute, but not cute enough for gay men and not brutal enough for women. Women order me a little. More often I play the role of an asset with a focus on the Master. To be honest, I don't care.

That is, my main contingent is the so-called “bottom” men who want to be whipped with a whip, fucked with a strap-on or all sorts of other things. I have a rich arsenal of all kinds of toys, and I go on trips like a caricature with a black suitcase, which contains the necessary BDSM paraphernalia and more.

I post veiled advertisements about myself, my beauty, on all sorts of dating sites and sites with an emphasis on the topic. I usually check the box “looking for a sponsor” or “with financial support.”

What do they ask for most often? What kind of clients are there?

- They often ask to humiliate. And by this they mean absolutely anything.

I had a regular client who forced me to walk around all day before going to see him in ankle boots, so that later, purring with pleasure, he would lick my sweaty feet.

Once upon a time, my grandfather met me; he looked exactly like fifty dollars. He invited me to be his Master. He told a sad story about how he served the previous Master for 15 years, and he suddenly died. He shared that there was no greater joy in his life than sitting at the feet of his Master and watching him pour his own urine into a champagne glass for a servant. In general, for some reason I refused.

(Still from the film “Call Man”)

There was also a classically large, influential guy who allowed himself to be put on a leash and wore bunny ears and a mask. He also had a ponytail, like a “pump”. Considering that this rabbit weighed 120 kilograms and had a huge hairy belly, the sight was tragicomic. I found it funny. But it was impossible to laugh, and it was necessary to chase the rabbit around the apartment with a stack and beat him on the ass with the same stack. It took a man 30-40 minutes. Then he would sit on the floor and tell him where he had messed up, and I would slap him in the face and call him a loser. This confession lasted another 30 minutes. Then he went to the shower, changed into his sparkly gray suit, called security and left.

Once, when I got a little used to him and his final confession was limited to 10 minutes, I asked him, “San, why do you need all this?” He answered simply:

“You see, in my life I bully everyone and drive them around with swearers, and sometimes I want them to do the same to me, but it’s impossible, the boys won’t understand.”

But what do you do if technical problems arise? Usually you can say that you are tired, but here it seems like the service was not provided.

- In general, everything is fine with my potency. But sometimes, when in front of you is not a pretty beauty, but a fat, hairy man, it’s not that you don’t get excited, but you think about how to suppress the urge to vomit.

So sometimes you have to use all kinds of Viagra and penis substitutes from a sex shop. I'm still an esthete.

(Still from the movie "Midnight Cowboy")

How long have you been doing this? How long do you plan to continue your career?

— As I already said, from the age of 18. Now I’m 25, and I understand that even with regular visits to the gym and cosmetologist, in five to ten years I risk finding myself on the sidelines of the profession, unable to compete with younger individuals.

At first I was euphoric, and I thought and wanted to do this forever.

You see, when you're a young guy and you can get a week's wages in an hour, you're a little freaked out at first. It seems that you are immortal and will always be so. But this is before the first hard order.

Now I have entered the second tower (I scored the first one at one time), I plan to finish it and still look for a job in my specialty, saving myself a small financial cushion. Prostitution is not a job that I would like to do for the rest of my life, as I understand now.

I also thought about finding a sponsor, but I understand that I am not ready to spend my whole life serving some person who is just a little richer than me. And this is still a road to nowhere. Sooner or later you will be replaced by a young and beautiful person, and you will be left without education and work, and generally not accustomed to work. As I said, it’s difficult to work an eight-hour day when you’re used to getting that amount of money in half an hour. But I don't think I have a choice.

(Still from the 1968 film Flesh)

You mentioned strict orders. If possible, tell me what you meant.

- My name is not mentioned? *laughs*

There are a lot of crazy people in this business. Rich friends often buy you. And they have a special mental deviation. Imagine being able to buy anything and anyone. How quickly do you get tired of standard sex?

He himself had stories of varying degrees of abnormality. For example, one new client called me to visit him. I got ready, checked the address and arrived. An ordinary two-room apartment, with an average renovation. We looked at each other, talked for a couple of minutes, everything seemed fine. The client is not stubborn, he behaves normally, without aggression. I asked for my fee, received it, put it in my jacket, went to look at the bed in the bedroom and went to the shower. When I came out, my “dove” was already waiting for me, sitting in the center of the bed. I sat down next to him, pushed him onto the pillow, and then they quite competently locked my neck from behind.

I will not bore the reader with the bleak details of the gang rape. I’ll just tell you that after that meeting I learned that a rib fracture takes a long time to heal and is painful, and after that it reminds itself for a long time when the weather changes.

I was allowed to leave the apartment four hours later. I didn’t see the point in reporting to the police, since there wasn’t much hope, and I would have to explain how and why I came there. By the way, they took the money out of the jacket, although they left the mobile phone and documents aside. You could say I got off easy. I took tests for “Venus”, hepatitis and HIV, they, fortunately, showed a negative result.

That's all I mean. Not everything is as smooth as you imagine at first glance. Our business is quite unkind and full of assholes. Moreover, both from clients and from “colleagues in the shop.” And in the absence of legal support and protection, everything becomes very sad.

“Luna” values spiritual bonds and sacredly observes morality, and therefore with this text we in no way encourage people to get this job.

We also remind you that we consider sexual violence in all its forms and manifestations disgusting and deserving of more serious punishment than is currently provided for in the criminal code.

Masha Koshkina

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Service list

Types of clients

Cons of the profession

Why gigolo?

Types of call men

Service list

Types of clients

Cons of the profession

Why gigolo?

Types of call men

Who are gigolos?

Does gigolo mean call boy?

Why do women use such services?

It's hard not to fall in love with such a man

Where can I find it?

How much do such services cost?

Why is a gigolo better than a one-night stand?

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